Living one day at a time, enjoying one moment at a time, accepting hardship as a pathway to peace.
The Prayer of Serenity line speaks to the resilient nature of life with God, as well as life with one another. Where tender affection and raw sacrifice must mingle.
Simeon and Rebecca’s wedding rang with the uncommon blends of sacred-and-exhilarating, of solemn-and-ecstatic. My friend Roger officiated.
Revisiting some of his prepared notes, several bits of wisdom there stirred my thinking.
. To give your lives away to another is the work of a lifetime.
. You are leaving home to find home. In some ways you are entering this union having prayed and prepared, knowing what you are saying yes to; and in other ways you have no clue what you are signing up for (here, ‘empathy-laughter’ of already-married couples rippled through the chapel).
The minister continued,
. Jesus invites all of us to walk a narrow way. Love is always a narrow way that limits our options but expands and fulfills our soul. The wedding aisle is one of those narrow ways.
Roger offered further nuggets. One especially drew me in,
. You’re in a room full of friends and family here to witness this covenant of faithful, steadfast, unconditional, and enduring love. And it’s why we invite God into this. Because only His love can empower our love to last a lifetime.
Only God’s love empowers our love to last, to flourish, to remain nurtured and sustained. To be kept alive.
Can we rally an image in our mind’s eye. . . clusters of ripened fruit suspended from an array of vine-fed branches? Lingering a moment with the picture before us we catch a whisper – an inviting voice – directed to our soul,
“I am the Vine”.
©2023 Jerry Lout *John 15
Thanks again, Jerry.
Since Chari & I do lots of marriage and family workshops and training here, you’ve provided some great quotes to steal!
“Vine Fed” put me in mind of another John McCutcheon song (Your blogs typically do!) that is one of he best wedding songs I’ve heard. If the link below doesn’t work, go to Youtube and search for, “John McCutcheon This Is Not A Song”
I think you’ll enjoy it.
I hope you’ll take a moment to enjoy it:
Thank you, Chip . . very meaningful. Also, listening to the music piece now, Enjoying indeed.
Sooo good!
Thank you, ‘anonymous! : )
‘Accepting hardship as a pathway to peace.’ Not easy, but the hardship becomes the fertilizer for our growth. Good stuff, Jerry.
Indeed. Thank you, RJ